The Dining Room

Many folks will tell me how they admire my minimalism….but they could never do it with kids/spouse/pets or think about giving up their books/Pez collection/baseball cards. “OK,” I say. Every game has its rules. Draw a big Sharpie circle around whatever it is you can not do without and think about minimalism outside that circle.

Here is my dining room. This is the room my family of four eats in 2-3 times per day. It also gets used an “office” or project room, a place to read and sometimes a place to fold laundry. All of the rooms in my house multi-task. This is normal in many traditional homes around the world. I’m not sure when middle class folks started to designate rooms to furniture types instead of function, but I would guess that it happened about the time marketing took off after WWII.

Total number of objects in the room (in the share with my kids category) is 42. Here in the corner hutch you will see

Dishes

This includes two Corning ware serving pieces with lids. These can be frozen, baked, microwaved and look fancy on the table. They are versatile. Next shelf down are five mugs–used to be six. Ah, that is family life. (And some paper napkins, in case you were wondering) Down from there are five glasses and five small plates. Used to be six and eight. So. Down one more shelf are nine bowls and six large plates. Used to be ten and eight. The reason some are missing is that we use these dishes every day. Small and large plates, bowls, glasses are all used as serving pieces from time to time. All are inexpensive (mostly from Pier One or Target) and white or clear. Everything matches, can be used together and if all but one of the large plates breaks I just buy some more white dishes and call the lone large white plate a “serving piece.”

Also in the room are the über functional table and chairs.

table and six chairs

And because every environment needs a little soul, there are three works of art. The first is a movie poster for a movie two of my kids help make.

Paper Airplane poster

That is beloved daughter in the upper left corner and beloved middle son in the lower right. The movie was a hoot. Here is a trailer for it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F6n8XQ2Igw0

Here is a painting that my mother carted back from Mexico City at significant risk to our personal safety. Mom and I both think the painting says, “Welcome.” Other family members were too traumatized to see it in a positive light.

Bienvenido

And my artistic favorite-The Joyful Buddha, an housewarming gift from mom.

I think he is pleased with the minimalist room he dwells in

There is also a portion of the dish hutch with a solid door. The only thing in there is the tool to unscrew the bulbs from the light fixture.

Intelligent design?

So there you have it. One of the most used rooms in the house–42 items total.

Degrees of Freedom

I can hear that clock ticking. Not the one in the crocodile that the Lost Boys are afraid of. As a child, I could not wait to grow up, could never understand why someone would want to remain in an infantile state forever.

Not the one to create babies. Lord knows, I have enough children. (I love you, every one.)

No, the clock I hear is the one to my freedom. My daughter is a senior in high school. One more year and she is out of the house. My middle son is a junior. Two more years and he has moved on. Youngest is in 8th grade. He has 5 more years of schooling here left. But I can hear that clock ticking.

And it manifests itself in two opposing ways: I want to squeeze the joy and intimacy of every single moment that I have, because I know it will not likely be like this again. And I relish my new freedom.

One less child in the house is less driving and co-ordination of schedules. It is one less person’s tastes I have to accommodate when planning the meals. It is less mail, less shopping, not as many trips to the instrument repair shop.

I am getting a tiny glimpse of it this week while the kids are in DC with their dad. No cooking. No trips across town to  a music lesson. It is very peaceful. Will it get boring? Hmmmm. I do not allow kids boredom, the world is filled with fascinating things to do/read/places to go. So, I think not.

Degree of freedom this week: 3/10.

In a year? I’ll let you know.